Thursday, February 28, 2008

A Couple of Books

The books I will be writing a bit about today are especially interesting to me as I have recently heard each of the authors speak about their books and experiences leading up to the writing of them.

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The first book, The Cellist of Sarajevo, is a proof copy that I got at the general book fair in Victoria. The book will be available in stores in April. Galloway is a Canadian author who lives near Vancouver and teaches writing at the University of BC and at Simon Fraser University.

Galloway has spent time in Sarajevo and has written this fiction piece to express what life was like when the city was under siege. He has condensed the time period to about a month. The story begins with a dreadful mortar blast that kills twenty-two people waiting in a bread line. A cellist views this from his window. To honor those who lost their lives, every day for twenty two days, the cellist dresses in his tuxedo, sits in the crater and plays Albionoi's Adiago. This is very dangerous. The cellist, the mortar, and the music is a true bit in the story.

The cellist is one of three central characters getting by while being held hostage in their now unfamiliar city. One of the characters is a girl who calls herself Arrow. She is a trained sniper, a defender against those who threaten, from the distant hills, the towns' people. She does not go by her given name. That person did not hate and could not do what she finds herself doing now. War changes people in all sorts of ways - makes them into people they never imagined being. At the same time, there are brave breakthroughs of beauty and grace under hideous duress.

The second book is entitled Amish Grace.


I heard this author speak at a local church and I was very much impressed with his grace, compassion, humility and knowledge. Donald Kraybill, lives near Nickle Mines, Pennsylvania where you may remember a horrific shooting took place in an Amish school in October of 2006. Ten girls were shot, five died and four have recovered. The fifth is semi comatose. Because Kraybill studies and writes books on Annabaptists, including Mennonites and Amish, he was called upon by news media the days after the shooting to answer hundreds of questions.

This book is not so much about violence as it is about forgiveness. The journey, that is this story, unfolds revealing four surprises. First, it was a horrible surprise that a such violence could strike in such peaceful surroundings. Second, the forgiveness expressed by the Amish, was very surprising to most outside the community - especially the speed with which it was offered and the actions that accompanied it. Thirdly, the Amish were surprised that forgiveness was surprising. Fourthly, it was surprising that very soon forgiveness became the media focus - transending the tragedy. In fact, some 2,500 news pieces written about forgiveness resulted .

The authors, there are three, look closely at the topic of forgiveness - what forgiveness is and what it is not. (Many Christians will say "forgive and forget" - not something I agree with. I think forgiving and remembering is more the point and how we remember - how we frame what we remember is the key.) Some of the questions addressed are; What is Amish forgiveness? Is Amish forgiveness different than regular Christian forgiveness? Doesn't forgiveness take time? Is forgiveness the same as pardon and does it minimize the evil that was done - saying it doesn't really matter? What can we take from this story?

In addition, there is a fantastic appendix for further reading on forgiveness. Already this book has lead to two other books I would like to read. One being, The Sunflower: On the Possibilities and Limits of Forgiveness, by Simon Wiesenthal. "A true story [I understand his own story] of a Nazi's plea for forgiveness to a Jewish Prisoner, with subsequent reflections on the prisoner's silent response." Wiesnethal asks many in his book, "Had you been asked, what would you have done?"

The book was funded by a group called the Fetzer institute, whose mission is to raise awareness in the global community of the power of love and forgiveness. Their slogan is, "Change everything. Love and Forgive." See http://www.fetzer.org/ The royalties from the sales of the book are going to Mennonite Central Committee to help children who have been hurt though poverty, war or natural disaster. Already 40,000 has been raised. There are a number of good reasons to buy and read this book in my opinion.
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Update on my niece Kim. She is still in pain, neck and back, but she is home walking about and beginning to do stairs. She was unable to finish the volleyball season. I hope she is able to get back to school following this week, which is reading week. Physio therapy will be beginning soon. Thanks for your prayers and thanks for asking Jill.

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Sunday in Whiterock

These pictures might be harder on my Alberta readers than the crocus was! Here we are, February 25th at the beach - me in sandals and carpi's, sunglasses and sun hat. As my grandson Elijah says, NICE.

We headed out to Whiterock first thing in the morning, planning to catch a Taize worship service in the evening which is a habit we enjoy during lent. It does not seem to be in our church's DNA to celebrate the church year in ways that are meaningful to me, although my church has many other strengths. So we visit some of the other parts of the family during the year as well. I like that - not just knowing but experiencing that the family of God is bigger than the one church I am a member of. It's a really big family. Imagine how delighted I'd be to meet family off this continent!

Mostly we went on a long walk. We laughed at funny little dogs who just couldn't get enough of running crazy circles in the shallow puddles on the tide's out beach. The bigger dogs seemed to restrain their emotions more - hmmm....like children in comparison to adults. There's a lesson here. I splashed though the puddles getting my feet properly wet. You know puddle splashing is a value of mine if you've been reading long ;)
Also there were boats, sail boats, kyakers. Swimmers even. And eagles. When we just arrived at the beach, the male and female were both in the bare tree branches. I would love to have gotten a picture of them together, but just couldn't get there fast enough. If you enlarge the pictures, you can even see eye glint in three of them. This, my wildlife photographing brother says, is very important.


LK with his seagull buddy.

Walking the tracks back to the main beach while those eagles kept flying overhead.

I've been reading someones blog whose life is very different from my own. I've commented a couple times as she seems to invite dialog. I wondered if she was OK, I think some others did as well. I thought the comments that she received were, almost entirely well intended honest enquiries. It's been interesting to watch the reactions, not just of the author, but other commenters. It seems different views are considered negative and even hateful. What a surprise to me. I'm all about the motive - believing the best, always trying to believe the best.
On my sidebar, you will see a link to Duncan Africa. I am VERY excited about this fine man's dream to teach Ugandan craftspeople to build his incredibly lovely guitars as a source of sustainable income. Right now he is teaching his very first students to build the first African guitars. Please check out this link to learn more and to follow Jay's blog while he is there. Donations are also welcome and needed.

Saturday, February 23, 2008

One of Many

When I headed out for my walk the other day I saw one crocus out. When I returned there were at least three more open and now I have many. They always make me smile - so persistent and dependable popping through matted brown grass to bring spring cheer. Hello! Welcome my little friends.

Today Steve moved home for a bit. That was not so easy for him as he really liked living with his buddies. It was financial and just for a bit so we'll be all talking about how to make it the most enjoyable it can be for all of us. Already we were talking about having scheduled meals a couple times a week. I like that - knowing when to cook and looking forward to the people. I'm looking forward to seeing more of Courtney.

In a spurt of tightwadness I bought some fabric yesterday to recover our couch and love seat cushions. It's not the same fabric - but a solid in a close carmel beige. It looked perfect in the store. Then the evening lamplight made it a different color. I was less sure. Steven looks doubtful. I ambitiously thought I would start and finish the project today. Ha ha. So all or nothing. I went with the nothing as the all was just too overwhelmingly large. OK next goal - make a pattern - cut a cushion out - make one - make two. See - moderation - I think I can do that. It only cost me 80 dollars for this experiment so if it extends the life of the furniture by a couple years, or even makes it useful to pass on to someone else, it will be worth it.

I've been reading quite a bit - I'll have to have show and tell about the books. Good ones.

And now I will push spell check because I hear it is working.

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Sunshine, Blue Skies

This is me waving at you. I was thinking of Lovella when posed for the picture and her wish to have her beloved gardener do more posing for shadows. I wonder what people at the lake thought as they walked by? :)

This is the third day in a row of some sunshine. I can feel my spirit relax. Lots of people are gardening already and I'm feeling the itch myself but today I just walked. I'm getting over a cold that came with achy all over feelings. Today I was able to ease off the Tylenol. I love Tylenol - my but they were effective.

Big news - my mom came home today. And bigger news I asked her how she was feeling now emotionally and she confirmed what I had been seeing, she is feeling much better! My heart rejoices knowing that depression is not winning at pounding her into the ground.

Today I walked this footbridge twice. It's my favorite part of the lake walk. I'd like to live on a lake - I wonder if it will ever happen as there just aren't that many lakes nearby. The turtles are still sleeping. The seagulls though, seemed to be dive bombing the ducks today. I think it had to do with the gulls wanting the food that some folks were giving the ducks. Not suppposed to feed those ducks.

This weekend Lance was out to help lead/teach at a worship retreat and, although his weekend was pretty full, we got some family time also. My parents got an afternoon visit and photos on laptop. Steve, Carolyn and Anna were able to join us for organic chicken chili and naan bread. Sometimes the little visits are the best because of the treat like quality of them.

Look at Steve talk with his hands! Anna gave Uncle Lance a jumping demonstration. I think she clears an inch and a half for sure. Our little jumping bean.
I saw my gastroenterologist last week. I thought he would be just so happy I feel good that he'd want to leave me alone. Not so. He's scheduled another biopsy of my pancreas (endoscopic ultrasound) - and a CT scan. They intend to check for changes for two years. He thinks it's very likely that I am healthy. Although I didn't enjoy these tests the first time 'round, I'm telling myself to be grateful for the care and not to let tomorrow rob today. Consider the lilies, yes?
I shared my Valentine verse with my mom the last time I saw her and she shared her memory of the first time I went to Sunday School. I was three. When I came out of class, she asked me, "What did you learn in Sunday School?". And I answered her, "God made the whole world." She enjoyed sharing that memory with me. Then my dad asked me if I remembered asking about the holes in the sky. Yes, I remember walking from the car to the house, in the dark with my family, when I looked up and asked my parents, "Who made those holes in the sky?" I know it's not the first time I'd had the thought, but it was the first time I'd asked out loud. Not sure how old I was, maybe 4? My dad's eyes sparkled as he recounted the story and he said he'd never forget that as long as he lived. I was sure the night sky was sort of a velvet blanket and the lights were heaven shining through.

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Valentines

Happy Valentines Day! I hope you each have people in your lives to love and be loved by. Stirring in my memory today is a favorite verse from my childhood. I vividly recall sitting as a group on tiny wooden chairs, which fit just right at the time, reciting all together during Sunday School opening session, "We love, because he first loved us". In awe I believed it then and I believe it still. He shapes and leads me in love.
My doorbell rang this morning and when I answered, what a happy surprise greeted me. Anna and her mom, Carolyn with a red flower for me! We went down to the playroom and had a good little play before they went on to their next special Valentine delivery. Thanks you two!

Me and my flower - Anna and a red bug.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

At Sea

If you haven't read "Booking a Weekend", scroll down one post for context.
A ferry ride never made me think of a cruise before, but having been on one, now I am very pleasantly reminded of cursing when as I ride the ferry. And the price - well, such a deal! Here's LK looking out to sea, no binoculars.


You might never see this vantage point because, I confess, I accidentally ended up in a no access area. I wasn't hard to get to, just don't read the sign on the door. I realized it after I was already though the first and found myself surrounded by no access exits. The only way out is though.
I like the angled lines in this shot.

Sky. Lots of it.

Quaint.

Got home to two bits of news. My mom is going home next Tuesday. There will be a little help set up for the first two weeks. Dad says this will be a good time to evaluate. My hope is that some regular help will be scheduled to meet their needs, even unfelt needs.


Secondly, we learned that our niece, Kim, had been in a serious accident in Langely Saturday night as she came home from a winning volleyball game. She is home now but very sore. The other driver, who had been drinking, and who had no valid license, died on the scene. Very sad any way you look at it and traumatic for everyone involved. Kim is busy with nursing school and volleyball playoffs. Prayers would be welcome.

Booking a Weekend

Literally :) We were away to Victoria for a general book fair, discovering books, buying books, hearing authors and staying in a lovely hotel right on the ocean. It was gray, mostly, but I enjoyed watching float planes, ships, kayaks, and long boats outside my window. I enjoyed meeting new folks who also love books.
We had a very upbeat time at a dinner and dance that was part of the weekend. No cooking but good food - yum - I'm up for that. We also enjoyed lunch on the way home with bookstore owner friends. It's always encouraging to talk with someone who shares similar dreams.
The sunny times we had were on the ferry rides. Today the ride home was splendid. Sometimes I nap on the ferry, but I said to LK, it was way too beautiful to close my eyes. Here are a few bright photos.



Saturday, February 09, 2008

Girls Having Fun

Cara got back from the camping conference on Thursday afternoon. With Andy running errands, we had time to play. We got a great visit in at Grandma Rita's (O'ma to the great grandchildren). We also got to greet other family members working in the office.

After getting home from there, we found Andy was going to be delayed so we had plently of time to go to the blue playground and visit ducks from the foot bridge. By this time, all of us were pretty tired, but the trip outside was better than just waiting around inside - especially since we don't get to do this often, AND it was not raining!
Here's lookin' at you kid :)
Like old times. Even the sun is shining.

Wednesday, February 06, 2008

Just a Few More

What do all these adults find so amusing?
Lance's parents and their twin grandchildren who they have taught to play piano with their bums. Or even a foot perhaps. You should see and here this it's quite the drama - espcially the lower notes.
Family photo the morning we left. The boys and hockey sticks, the girls and lotion. Not too gender typical - ha.
We tried a picture on the couch - but Eva had heard me say 'maybe on the suitcase' and she cried on the couch saying 'case, case'. Here's the result of the suitcase shot. I'm still smiling and only cried a little this time when I said goodbye. Just right :)
We had such a sweet time, reading, playing, eating, visiting, laughing - lots of laughing. I still have more pictures - good ones for me too enjoy. Cuties in the tub, cuties on my lap. I love family.

Visitors!

Cara and Sarah have come for a visit. There is a camping conference going on nearby and Andy and Cara are taking that in. Cara and Sarah arrived a day early - bonus! We got to visit my mom and you see Cara showing her some photos. What do you notice? A smile! Her mood is just a bit lighter and she is gaining strength. There is talk of sending her home within a couple weeks. Amazing. My dad and I are busy talking about what kind of help might be required.
Sarah spent one night at the Abrahams' house and is now at our home for two nights. We have fun sharing her and working everything out according to work schedules. Sarah loves to make "smoovies" (smoothies) with plastic food and to serve them to everyone. Today we made jewelry - her choice. Part way through making jewelry we played soccer and a couple of card games. You see Sarah has been shopping. That's Aimee's old cart. Sarah drives it into the kitchen, shops out of my pantry cupboard, goes into the living room and unpacks and bags up her food, takes it back home, puts it away and begins again. Very grown up. Tonight we ate one of the apple sauces that she "bought". This made her smile.

This hairstyle is called "plate head" because the top of the hair is flat like a plate. It was discovered one night after supper when Sarah's headband suddenly popped up giving her hair this unique do. In the next picture you can see how hilarious Sarah thought this was.

Ridiculous and hilarious plate head. We're having fun.

What happened to spell check? I love that feature.

Saturday, February 02, 2008

More Please - AKA Sharing

Elijah - Sauce. Sauce.
Eva - Dishes up more sauce for Elijah from her own bowl. Many spoonfuls.



Elijah - Sauce. Good.
Eva - Are you going to eat that cheese?

Elijah - Happily eating that sauce.
Eva - Happily helping herself to more cheese.

Elijah - Oh dear. The sauce IS all gone.

The Beginning of More :)

Lance started our visit off just right by nabbing favorite Starbuck's drinks all 'round. Thanks Lance. It's good the little ones are drinking great coffee young so they'll know what a good shot tastes like. Great training for working at Grandpa LK's coffeehouse.

*Just joking about the kids having coffee. They have water in their cups that adults emptied for them. Hey, why feel left out if you don't have to?

Below, Eva is helping her mama with clothespins. Sometimes she stands close. Sometimes she does lunges while she helps thus working on personal fitness at the same time. Wouldn't you love this kind of help?

Elijah has inherited a love of hockey from his papa. Here Mush (doggy from our Alaska trip) and Elijah play hockey. Elijah often lifts his stick over head and yells - "HOCKEY" - an invitation I find irresistable.

Music brings generations together. Lando and Elijah jammin' while the Shorty and Dolly listen.

I've got more! Of course.

Friday, February 01, 2008

We've Been Away

Last week, Friday morning, LK and I jetted out of here through blue skies and over splendid backsides of familiar mountains and headed to Edmonton for Breakforth worship conference for the weekend. It was difficult to place ourselves as we flew over this new angle we'd never seen before. Beautiful - no?
After checking into our fine hotel room, we headed for the incredibly long snaking, but well ordered, registration line before the open worship session. I think I heard 10,000 folks were there, representing 1,000 churches. And still I manage to run into more people here that I know than at the local mall, because I went to Bible school in Camrose (CLBI) in the '70's and many of the people I went to school with live in the area and show up at Breakforth.

Things I particularly enjoyed about the weekend were; singing with a huge number of people, hanging out with LK, taking workshops together - especially one about rest and one about fear, listening to keynote speaker Josh McDowell talk on parenting, and Erwin McManus talk about Jesus. He's an incredible story teller.

Above left and lower right - Dr. Blu and band playing in a late night coffee house. LK totally soaks up this kind of thing. I went to school with Dr. Blu's wife. Upper right, LK's cousin Ray and wife Kathryn. We caught a couple sessions with these two and a leisurely quiet off site dinner. More than cousins - also dear friends. Below left Ray, Kathryn and LK with thousands of others worshiping God with one voice.

We found Bernell manning the CLBI booth. Bernell is Lance's dad and, presently both Lance and his dad work at CLBI. I think that's pretty unique and special.

I thought it would be very difficult to be in Edmonton, so very close to Lance, Aimee and the little e's, and still focus on and enjoy the moment - but it was just fine. Sunday, though, LK and I agreed to skip the last session and head out to see our family. It also seemed a good idea to leave early as it was snowing and blowing - better to drive in daylight. See below!

Wow - white out!

The drive wasn't so bad. Getting out at the gas station and waiting for LK to figure out how to unlock my door in the rental car so I could get back in when the windchill was somewhere around 40 below - that was bad! But the drive we took slow. It was great for Minnesota girl to see real winter again. And I was so happy that I smiled so long that my teeth dried out and I had trouble getting my upper lip back down! That's a long grin. That grin grew and grew - finally I had the electric, dreamlike, yet very solid feeling of taking my grandchildren in my arms and greeting them with my hands and kisses. Grandparent/ grandchild - it's quite the profound conncection. Here they are! No I didn't pen them up as soon as I arrived - they were giving us the tour which included the beds. This is Eva's and they both wanted to go in and be a couple goofballs for us right of the bat.

More to come.